News & Notes

Whether we are announcing a grant, having fun remembering a fundraiser, keeping you up to date about what’s going on with our volunteers/staff, or letting you know how your donations are making a difference, you’ll find it here.

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The state legislature recently expanded Michigan’s expungement laws, making thousands of Michiganders eligible for removing certain offenses from the public record. We know that criminal charges can make access to employment, housing, and education significantly harder. Shown are two flyers that can be printed out and shared within your communities. Furthermore, the expungement of records in Washtenaw County is free due to generous grants from the Legal Services of South Central Michigan, Michigan Works!, and other county partners. 

The Prosecutor’s office has started a new chapter and is working towards making Washtenaw County a more equitable and just place. Since January, they have issued several policy directives and created programs promoting equity, fairness, and public safety. Their office wants to collectively create policies and programs that center the community’s rights in office initiatives.

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You Will Be Missed, Betty Mosshart

You Will Be Missed, Betty Mosshart

Betty Mosshart (pictured on the right) volunteered here for more than a decade, writing thank you letters and keeping the staff fed with her wonderful baked goodies. Through all the sadness in her life through the loss of her son and then her husband, she always said that coming in to Friends In Deed and being part of our family meant so much to her. She shared her stories, her sweet spirit, her hugs and her laughter. She even took care of the plants. We will miss her so much.
– Sarah Thorburg
If you would like to share your sentiments with her friends and family, you can find her obituary and space to do that here: https://www.legacy.com/funeral-homes/obituaries/name/betty-mosshart-obituary?pid=198819234&v=batesville&view=guestbook
Laptops for Leaders: Tanya

Laptops for Leaders: Tanya

As we all know, COVID-19 forced us all to change in all sorts of ways. Our Circles program meetings moved to Zoom and our Leaders did their best to adapt to the new format, many of them using their phones for the meetings. By late 2020, Allies had noticed that the Leaders were struggling with juggling Zoom meetings on their phones while Allies could log in from the comfort of their computers. They decided to take action and came to Suzanne and Bonita with a crowdfunding idea that grew into Laptops for Leaders. Through this program, Circles Leaders can apply for laptops, hotspots, and other tech equipment to pursue their goals, be they professional or educational. Leaders contribute a portion of the cost to pay it forward to future cohorts. 

Tanya of Cohort 3 enthusiastically applied to the program and received a laptop, printer, and microphone. The laptop and printer have helped Tanya grow her clothing resale business. She will be using the microphone for an upcoming podcast focused on the voices and experiences of people in poverty. “It will be about people in poverty, people who have gotten out of poverty, people who are in the middle of getting out of poverty. You know, real people’s stories.” 

Having a laptop of her own has made a huge difference in Tanya’s ability to stay connected with people. She’s no longer limited by her phone’s limited size and capacity. During Circles meetings, she can properly see and hear all the people who have been her support structure during COVID-19. Tanya has joined various online communities, including a new church, a book club, and an online tai chi class. She’s been able to do the research and prep to make her podcast a reality. 

The Laptops for Leaders program has helped Tanya pursue her dreams. 

 

– Megan Rochlitz

Reimagined by Will Jones III

Reimagined

by Will Jones III | dedicated to Friends In Deed

it’s like unzipping a familiar, yet broken zipper

then separating the strands

creating as much distance between them as possible

fighting against the magnetic compulsion to bring the familiar back together

and finding the strength to let one

fall to the ground

so what to do with the one still in your hand?

maybe you cobblestone it

filling the gaps with the chalk dust outline of hopscotch blocks

flooding empty space with the sounds of ice cream trucks, little girl giggles and the soles of tiny shoes touching pavement

maybe you reach back into yourself, on the infinitesimal scale

and grab the double-helix of resilience

perseverance, beauty, ingenuity

adaptation, creativity and raw strength that science calls

deoxyribonucleic acid

and unwinding it to take the broken zipper’s place

maybe its taking an oak tree

and stripping back the layers of bark

xylem and phloem

interwoven lattices of carbon and chlorophyll

until you get to the center ring

to the acorn at its core

plucking it out

and placing it in the richest, darkest, wormiest, old growth primordial soil you can find

whispering, while you nurture it,

“don’t be an oak tree

be food

be shelter and shade

be our lungs and filter

be cardstock

be two-by-fours, firewood, and sawdust

be tables, chairs, bed frames and baskets

be sap, be wind chimes, be life

be inspiration to future generations

be vast and innumerable in measure

be one

but do not be an oak tree”

whisper and wait, to see if it grows into an oak anyway

or becomes something altogether different

it’s building a sandcastle

flawed and cracked, but beautiful

with slightly crumbling battlements, ramparts, a seashell drawbridge

a kingdom created from fine grain and gravel

and watching a wave crash over it in graceful devastation

then staring, as the tide recedes

at the lumpy, wet mess sitting where structure once stood

and shaping what’s left into something else, something magnificent still

like a whale or a rocket ship or a tea kettle

because that’s what the new thing wants to be

it’s looking at the world for what it is

staring at it for so long, your vision blurs

turning to watercolors.

and then committing that watercolor to canvas

before handing your masterpiece over to a toddler

giving them crayons

and asking them to outline all the animals and numbers

shapes and objects

and all the things they see in your tableau.

and calling that what it is then

a world reimagined isn’t fantasy

it’s dreamweaving

zipping a piece of the ethereal, the mystic and mystery

the cosmic clouds you land on when shooting for the stars

to the world that’s still caught in our hands

it’s repurposing the oak table to become a wardrobe, a door into another world of lions and witches and turkish delight

it’s turning your hair the color of sapphires

it’s grabbing a handful of wet sand

and blowing it into glass.

a world reimagined is right here

waiting for us to discover it’s infinite potentials

the first step is simple

unzip

  • Will Jones III, October 2020
Our New Caseworker: Joye Clute

Our New Caseworker: Joye Clute

Joye actually started with us just a couple weeks before COVID sent our entire staff home to work remotely. “It was a little intimidating to be on my own and in charge of a community helpline,” Joye said of that time; but despite tackling a new job in relative isolation, Joye managed just fine. In fact, she worked tirelessly to adapt the Helpline’s services to the needs of the community as our most vulnerable members coped with the new COVID reality.

It probably helped that she already had experience working on a helpline through her prior job as a Housing Resource Specialist at Housing Access of Washtenaw County (HAWC). While Joye already knew the difficulties families faced finding housing after a setback like eviction, her experience with the FID Helpline gave her insight into all of the other struggles faced by low-income families in our community.

“I get a lot of personal interaction with the community and get to hear what the community struggles with outside of what people consider the basics of housing utilities and food – all of the other aspects of life,” Joye said. “And they are all expensive.”

While she believes in the need for all of the services offered through the Helpline, she thinks that the transportation assistance is especially important. “Car issues can be devastating to a household and are so often unaffordable to low-income families. It is unreasonable to think a family can afford a $1,600 car repair when they aren’t making that much in a month.”

Joye’s ability to empathize with her clients is reflected in her work history. Aside from a brief stint as a paralegal, Joye has always been attracted to the human services field. Her first job was as a daycare preschool teacher. She also spent 10 years rehabbing people suffering from traumatic brain injury.

Joye is married and lives with her husband, her 8-year-old stepson, 12-year-old daughter and new puppy in Ypsilanti.

Our New AmeriCorps VISTA: Megan

Our New AmeriCorps VISTA: Megan

Megan Rochlitz, the newest member of the Friends In Deed family, comes to us from St. Ignace, where she served a year as an AmeriCorps VISTA with the Mackinac Economic Alliance. And while we haven’t had much time to get to know Megan, one thing has become plainly obvious — between her love of trivia, obscure documentaries, and sundry podcasts — she commands a breadth of knowledge uncommon to someone her age. Majoring in religion, with a minor in English, she was drawn to the field for its interdisciplinarity. Branching into matters of history, philosophy, sociology, and more, what she found most interesting in her studies was the role religious movements have played as both drivers for and bulwarks against social change.

After graduating, Megan joined the workforce but found herself unsatisfied. “I needed something that would be different. Something that would help people rather than just improve the company’s bottom line,” she explained. So Megan committed to a year of service as an AmeriCorps VISTA, a program she so enjoyed that she’s decided to do it all over again with Friends In Deed.

We’re all thrilled to have a second VISTA in Megan — Andrew is returning for a second year. Right now she’s looking forward to getting to know Ypsi and Friends In Deed a little better. Over her year in St. Ignace, she has almost unavoidably grew accustomed to the fudge-based diet popular to that region, so she’s excited to explore the culinary diversity of her new home.

Old National Bank Awards $7,500 Grant to Friends In Deed

Old National Bank Awards $7,500 Grant to Friends In Deed

While any grant is greatly appreciated, we’d also like to point out that operations funding is especially hard to come by, and this grant is earmarked for the transition of our Direct Assistance Helpline following COVID. This means that we can breath a little easier knowing that the expenses that surround the Helpline’s operation are covered.

Thank you Old National Bank!

Pictured above: Sarah Thornburg (left), Executive Director of Friends In Deed; Laurie Sternberg (middle), Director of Communications and Development at Friends In Deed; and Lora Koch (right), Banking Center Manager of Old National Bank in Ann Arbor. Featured: A really big check!

2020 Census

2020 Census

The deadline for individuals to complete the census is a week from today – September 30th. While our county’s self-response rate to this point (76.6%) is higher than our response in 2010 (73.3%) and higher than the state (70.8%) and national (66.2%) averages. We do still see lower response rates in areas with large apartment complexes and mobile home parks on the east side of the county, as well as parts of Northfield and Pittsfield Townships. For every additional person who takes the census, the community receives an additional $30,000 over the next 10 years in funding for roads, schools, health programs, senior services and more. We need your help to reach everyone!

Make sure to complete the 2020 Census by going to my2020census.gov or by calling 844-330-2020 (or whichever number corresponds with their preferred language). We encourage you to talk to all of the people you work with, your friends, and family too.

Voter Registration/Absentee Ballot Drive Events

Voter Registration/Absentee Ballot Drive Events

The League Of Women Voters Ann Arbor Area, Unitarian Universalist Civic Engagement Group (UUCivs), and the Ann Arbor Housing Commission (AAHC) are hosting two non-partisan Voter Registration/Absentee Ballot drive events. These events will take place on Tuesday September 22nd 2020 at Miller Manor (727 Miller Ave./Ann Arbor, MI) from 11am-2pm in the Community Room, and at Baker Commons (106 Packard St./Ann Arbor, MI) from 3pm-5pm in the Community Room.  Please see attachments for more details.

Do YOU want to register to vote or need to apply for an absentee ballot? Call the nonpartisan Voting Helpline for whatever help you need to vote (and vote safely from home). Email VotingHelpine@gmail.com; or call 1-855-VOTE-311 (1-855-868-3311). A Helper can also get you a free Voting Kit. The Kit  provides everything needed to register to vote, get an absentee ballot, and return your ballot (forms, stamps, pen, and a Helper on the phone!). Deadline: September 30.  [These non-partisan services are provided by the Interfaith Council for Peace and Justice (ICPJ) and UUCivs of uuaa.org.]

Voting fun facts…did you know: 

  • Every Michigan voter has the right to get an absentee ballot?
  • There are free Helpers on-call to help you register to vote or get an absentee ballot? (1-855-VOTE-311)
  • You can still decide to vote in person if you get an absentee ballot?
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Golf Day Round Up

Golf Day Round Up

First of all, we’d like to thank our many sponsors that enabled us to carry on with our annual Golf Outing. It was different than prior years because of COVID-19, but we still managed to raise over $14,000 for Friends In Deed.

Major Sponsors

We’d also like to thank John Carver, Brewster & Anne Gere, and Helena Prince, as well as our many hole sponsors:

Businesses:

  • B&B Payee Services
  • Common Source Acupuncture
  • Count of Antipasto Inc.
  • East Liberty, LLC
  • RFD Boys
  • Van Winkle Mattress, Co.
  • Wurtzel Family Dentistry

Individuals:

  • Lorin Cartwright
  • John Carver
  • John and Kathy Charpie
  • Ken and Penny Fischer
  • Bob Guenzel
  • Myra Larson
  • David Pate
  • Darryl Ward
  • Mike and Debbie Weber

Now, drum roll please … The winner of the 2020 Golf Day was the team from Grace Bible Church: Adam Morse, Alex Bartee, Gerry Taylor, and Carl Hayes.

Thank you everyone for participating!

Friends In Deed’s Response to COVID-19

Friends In Deed’s Response to COVID-19

Friends In Deed will be assessing the situation regarding COVID-19 on a daily basis. As of right now, our staff is working from home, but some of our programs continue.

Friends In Deed serves some of our community’s most vulnerable families. During this time of crisis, these families are even more at risk. After careful consideration of public health concerns, as well as how our response will affect the people we serve, Friends In Deed has decided to close our physical offices to the public unless they have an appointment.

Specifically:

  • NEW! Resource Page: We created a Resource Page to help you stay connected and informed about the issues that affect you during this time. You can also use it to ask questions and let us know what you need now and what you anticipate needing after the virus restrictions are lifted.
  • Furniture Warehouse / Truck Pickups and Deliveries: While you can still call our Furniture Line to apply for furniture and be added to our wait list, our warehouse and truck operations are suspended as of March 24th for three weeks. We will reassess the situation regarding the virus on April 14th and give you further information at that time.
  • Furniture and Direct Assistance Programs: Our help lines will remain open, but our office staff will begin working remotely starting on Friday, March 20th. Our application process for all of our services can be conducted over the phone. Copies of any documents we request (lease, paycheck stubs, etc.) can be sent to us by fax (734-484-5335) or email (Furniture@FriendsindeedMI.org or Helpline@FriendsindeedMI.org).
  • Circles: Circles meetings at St. Luke’s are cancelled indefinitely, but we will continue to hold virtual meetings with Zoom on Tuesday evenings. We also encourage matched Circles to keep in contact by phone/text/online so that they don’t lose momentum. For more information on how to get and use Zoom, look to the section below.
  • Volunteers: Our office is now closed to volunteers.

We’ll be assessing the situation regarding COVID-19 on a daily basis, and we will let you know if anything changes. In the meantime, keep healthy and check out CDC resources here!

 


 

Zoom: How To Download and Use

  1. Download the Zoom app from Zoom, the Apple App Store, or Google Play Store
    1. Windows and macOS: https://zoom.us/download
    2. iPhone/iOS: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/id546505307
    3. Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=us.zoom.videomeetings
    4. Video tutorial: How to Sign up and Download
  2. Practice using the Zoom app
    1. Have one person in your Circle host a meeting, and invite the rest of the Circle.
    2. Take turns “hosting” the meeting, so that everyone knows how to do it.
    3. Video tutorial: Zoom Meeting Controls
Joshua Li

Joshua Li

Joshua Li, better known as Josh around Circles, has been volunteering at Circles for only a short amount of time with the children’s program, but he is already fitting in well with both students and teachers alike. He comes to the Circles children’s program after searching for ways to get more involved with the community and children specifically. It seems clear that his friend Tiffany has also played a large part in getting him involved with the program, as she originally found the opportunity and told Josh he should consider joining her.

Josh is a student at the University of Michigan who is also working part-time through the university and volunteering at a few other places. He’s a busy guy but has prioritized working with the program because he feels it’s really cohesive, both with the children and the parents who serve as Leaders in the adult Circles program. He also really likes that the curriculum provides guidance for teachers but also allows enough room for them to be creative and meet the students where they’re at.

Since Josh is still new to the program, he is still learning the ropes. So far though, he really enjoyed the emotions section of the program and is excited to get to the financial literacy section. Josh really enjoys that the children’s program is set up to parallel some of the things their parents are learning in the adult Circles program, and he feels the program as a whole is really important and effective in its goal to help lift people out of poverty.

Josh’s desire to learn and be authentically himself makes him a perfect match for the Circles teacher role that he’s in. Currently, he works in the elementary age classroom where his desire to learn and grow will be so beneficial to the students in that age-range. In case you didn’t know, elementary school-aged kids are often very high-energy, so finding healthy outlets for them to express and expel that energy is key. That’s where Josh comes in. His advice to the younger generation is to always have something you’re passionate about, no matter what other people think. Josh’s passion is map-making. If you’re curious, you should ask him more about it; who knows, maybe you’ll start creating your own maps after hearing how passionate he is!

Josh—thank you for all of your hard work so far! Without volunteers like you, the Circles children’s program would not be so beneficial and successful. We look forward to seeing what your continued support and care will provide to the many families involved in the Circles program.

Tom Preston – A Volunteer’s Perspective

Tom Preston – A Volunteer’s Perspective

One of the benefits of being an older college student is a deeper appreciation you get from the new experiences that you may have taken for granted as a fresh-faced teenager. Having taken time off from school before my second-go-round, I was in the workforce for several years and dealt with the hardships of making ends meet as I began work at an entry-level position with little experience and no degree. So, as I entered my final semester of school at Eastern Michigan University, my Communication Capstone class offered all of us the chance to volunteer at a non-profit organization in our community and assist in a communication-related role. I had previously heard about Friends In Deed through my professor and remembered a friend telling me how he had dropped a couch off at FID and what a cool mission they were serving in the community.

I wasn’t quite sure what to expect when I first showed up at FID, but I soon learned that they do far more than just accept donated furniture. I was told all about the Circles program, and I could tell from everybody’s voices just how proud they were of the work they had been doing. Circles is a really neat program that goes above and beyond the typical charitable work of donating money or a few hours here and there. The fact that real, genuine time is being spent by people from all walks of life to help neighbors and fellow community members was really inspiring. And then I started talking to volunteers to profile them and that opened my eyes even more.

The quality of people involved with FID is second to none. In the roughly ten weeks or so that I’ve been profiling FID volunteers, I have been so impressed with how dedicated the people are and how truly thrilled they are to be doing the work they’re doing. I could see it in people’s eyes, hear it in their voices, and even in an exchange over e-mail I could sense the passion in reading their typed words. All the people I spoke with truly believed in the work they were doing and the difference it was making. From an eighteen-month commitment for Circles allies to the weekly dinners at St. Luke’s, this was so much more than writing a check every few months. These people put forth their time and energy to help less fortunate members of their community. They sat with them and talked, mentored, cried, hugged, and, most importantly, listened. Every person I talked to stressed that they learned so much about poverty, about their community and themselves by hearing the stories of those less fortunate.

As I wrap up my college career and re-enter myself into the workforce, I consider myself lucky to have met the people I have met through FID and Circles the last few weeks. I’ve talked with my wife about the two of us spending more time volunteering, as her company has excellent partnerships with organizations in the community. While I just got a small look at the work FID and Circles do, I am really grateful to have had the opportunity to speak candidly with so many fantastic people. In a time when people in our country seem pitted against each other at every turn, it’s been really refreshing to witness such kindness and compassion from people right here in my own community.

Dine and Donate at Aubree’s

Dine and Donate at Aubree’s

We are having a Dine and Donate at Aubree’s this Monday, February 24th! All you need to bring is this flyer below, printed out OR on your phone, and 20% your meal will count towards Friends In Deed. We hope you can make it!

Location: 39 E Cross St

Hours: 11am – 10pm

Chantil – Another Chapter in Her Story

Chantil – Another Chapter in Her Story

Chantil (left) is a wonderful young lady looking for a brighter future, and it first started with her moving out from a transitional home at Marie’s House of Serenity into a new home of her own. While her demeanor was quiet and nervous, her eyes and smile said otherwise as she was excited and ready for a new beginning. There were only a few moments to speak to her since it didn’t take long to get the furniture into the back of her mom’s truck, but she has dealt with some struggles before coming to Friends In Deed.

As she was growing up, she was in and out of homeless shelters and other living arrangements, and for quite some time didn’t have a place to live at all. She has two brothers and a mother and stayed with them throughout these movements. Social services were helpful and so were other charitable organizations and social service programs such as United Way. Before she visited Friends In Deed for furniture for her new place, she only had a cot and a fold-up chair where she could let loose; now she has a table, a mattress, and a rocking chair that was discovered will be great to help her enjoy her hobby of filling out crossword puzzles.

Chantil heard of Friends In Deed, and she trusted them to support her and to make her new place of living more like home. We succeeded in just that as she saw the furniture pile into the back of her mom’s truck. There came a moment that taking a picture of just her didn’t truly represent that ambition you could see in her about this big transition in her life, so I asked her if she would prefer to take a picture with me (right). She agreed wholeheartedly, and her eyes in the picture alone tell a story, but today, with the help of Friends In Deed, a new chapter in that story has begun.

Ann Bogits

Ann Bogits

For over sixteen years, Ann Bogits (center) has been volunteering her time and energy to work with Friends In Deed. She has spent time as the chairperson for the Annual Dinner Committee and spent three years on the board all while being a regular donor throughout her time working with the organization. She is equal parts impressed and proud with the growth FID has achieved over the years, and she counts herself lucky to have witnessed it first-hand.

“I love how Friends In Deed has expanded its role over the years to further meet needs all the while staying true to the mission. It’s also really inspiring to see how everyone I have ever met through FID truly wants to serve. I have seen people who were once clients go on to become volunteers, and that’s really special.”

Ann first joined FID after hearing about the work that was being done through her church. She says she was drawn to FID by the mission to help the underserved in the community and joined the board as a representative from her church after being asked by the head of social ministries. She was thrilled with her decision from the get-go, and she has never looked back—crediting her time spent volunteering with making her a more grateful person.

“Once I joined the board, I was really impressed by how much of the budget goes to serve the clients’ needs, as I had heard about a lot of nonprofits with surprisingly low numbers due to high overhead. My sales pitch to someone thinking about volunteering their time would be that this is a humble organization that truly treats its clients as friends, not people to be pitied. And that FID is the best opportunity in this community for people to not just survive but to thrive. And who wouldn’t want to be a part of that?”

As an occupational therapist at St. Joe’s hospital, Ann has referred some of her patients to FID when she saw they would benefit from everything FID could offer them. Having lived in the Ann Arbor-Ypsilanti area for twenty-one years, she’s witnessed scores of people from her backyard bond across socioeconomic levels in ways a lot of people never get to do.

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